Reasons why you can't be friends with your Ex.

On my facebook newsfeed two of my friends that had been through a long winding road but they broke up. I may not know the reasons but at the end of every relationship I always hope for one thing..that both of them would at least remain friends. Before I don't understand why two people who actually broke up can't stay friends but after until I've been finally through a relationship I fully understand why and here are some of my reasons.

1.Memories-Even though now you may seem to hate each other, you can't change the past that you had shared these moments that you thought will definitely last but reality sucks that it don't.. and every time you see this person what you see were flashbacks. Good or Bad.. memories are memories

2.Physical attachment-I mean.. you use to hold hands, hug & kiss this person but now you can't even glare at him because It's over. How would you face somebody you used to hold.

3.You're still into him/her-I think this was the worst part that he/she had finally moved on and you see him/her smiling very genuine when you're not still over him/her. You wanna slap & curse yourself for still having feelings for that person. You hate the feeling that you want that person back.

4.Ego-It will most likely hurt your ego to talk to someone who actually broke your heart and you have this thing that "He/she should talk to me first." You can't broke the Ice because you hate to be rejected that maybe he/she doesn't care anymore. You can't even ask how was he/she? while curiosity kills you and you end up stalking to his/her facebook, twitter or you will ask your few mutual friends about him/her when you can actually do it yourself

5.The Break-up-You know what the song says.. "There's no easy way to heal somebody's heart. The break up was between both of you and you actually knew why it didn't work out and that drives you crazy. 

You know what, It didn't work out because it wasn't meant to work. Breathe and take one step at a time. Things will actually fall into places and before you know it.. the day will come that you will have to face him/her. Maybe it will took time but this very small world will make a way. If you can't stay friends with him then don't but calm yourself & act civil. Chin up! you're better than that. People come & go for a reason and he/she wasn't meant to stay.